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Post by Admin on Jun 11, 2022 11:40:44 GMT
Or maybe it's just better to 'hook up' rather than to date.
Maybe dating is just way old fashion now, maybe I'm way behind the times.
Maybe it's better to hit the bed or couch first, then later see if anything develops, at least that way you don't waste months or years chasing someone and still never get anything.
I mean that just seems to be the direction society is going in now, and here I am, all old fashion, still trying to seek a old fashion date...wow.
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Post by Admin on Jun 11, 2022 11:55:30 GMT
As a older male I face a delima in that I haven't had any muffins yet, that being said not sure what good a woman is to me if they cannot give me my own family.
I struggle with that.
Cause as a older male, with no muffins of my own, one of the worst things in the world to me is when with another older woman, and to hear them always reference their family or grown muffins, ect.
It makes me feel totally left out and even more alone.
Nothing worse than being with someone else and constantly here them talking about their muffins, even when grown, and knowing you have none of your own.
And most of these women are divorced and or were never married.
Craigslist use to be a fun quick way to meet people, back in the day, it was free, so no loss, but now you have to go onto these day lines or apps, which snoop on you way more than craigslist ever did.
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Post by Admin on Jun 11, 2022 12:04:20 GMT
Dating sites always show perfect looking couples  Dating sites always show perfect looking and adjusted couples in the banner. But wait, most perfect looking and adjusted couples are already paired, met in college, or on the job. To me, it's the physically imperfect types that resort to datelines (other than cruisers, as in people just looking for whatever, but they're usually men) But what perfect Howard University or Penn State University woman/man, is going to be on a dateline? They already, presumably, have a large enough social pool in real life to chose a mate from. It's people who like work as cashiers, or truck drivers, or janitors, ect, who don't work in a glamorous setting, who work alone, are usually the ones on datelines since can't meet anyone at work, and or out of school and college. ----------------------------- And I also hate the 'I am a man seeking a woman' type of template, it just sounds so stone age to frame it that way.
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Post by Admin on Jun 11, 2022 12:14:34 GMT
In real life I just don't meet or mesh with others, of either gender, based on a few static profile check marks.
In real life, people are flexible, we bend, we contort our mood or personality depending on whom we're interacting with.
And some dry dating site template just cannot reveal that.
A dating site template can make you appear as some stiff prude, when in reality you or another could be cool as all can be.
But on dating sites, since those who use them, are so shallow and prude, they may and usually do, reject you before they get to know you.
And women on dating sites just assume they know all about men, that all men are the same, that all men just want sex from them, and so makes many of the women on dating sites act very prude, and treat guys who are really lonely like dogs in a dog pound, waiting for someone to open the cage and take them for a walk.
I just don't like that scene at all.
Others do fine with it, but I always get turned off before even going to the paid part of membership.
How they toy with you...
Like when they say 'Join for free' BS, knowing goodness well if you want to actually see peoples profile, contact info, that you have to pay.
And you never know if person is real, a bot, that drags you along until next paid level, it's sick to me.
And I'm sure it's only gotten worse since the last time i tried using such a site.
I can see why many people just say 'screw all that', and go straight to sex now, as in hook up apps, that way there's no emotional expectations and you know you're getting what your getting, just a cold interaction with a stranger that fulfills your hunger for companionship for a quick moment.
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Post by Admin on Jun 11, 2022 12:29:22 GMT
I think YT videos are a great way for people to see how you are in real life
Showing others how you are in real life just kind of breaks that whole online stiffness where people tend to relate to you more like a cartoon character.
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Post by Admin on Jun 12, 2022 22:21:14 GMT
I think my only hope at finding meaning in this world is to get into a relationship and start my own family.
And that's way easier said than done, but at least I have to try, I have to try, cause I've tried everything else.
And it's like I'm dead to the world.
I need my own family if I'm to derive any meaning going forward.
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Post by Admin on Jun 12, 2022 23:13:37 GMT
Here's the thing with me, I doubt I'll truly ever love anyone as deep as they'd like me to, if can't give me a grape or baby...otherwise it's like I'm faking it at my age.
If a woman cannot give a grape, than what's the point?
May as well date some cute slender transgender or twink male then.
Older women don't understand that, unless exceptionally attractive to me, I can never totally love a woman who cannot give me my own family.
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Post by Admin on Jun 12, 2022 23:22:30 GMT
I hate, totally hate dating sites, and miss the ease of use with Craigslist, cause CL was free, and they didn't have to know all your info.
yes, they took it down cause some were abusing the system, but many others were not, now what?
Now we have to join these pre historic dating sites with static questions, which take your money all the time you're paying to talk to a bot or to someone half way across the world.
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Post by Admin on Jun 12, 2022 23:34:07 GMT
Another thing I hate about dating sites today, is the fact that they've all seemingly been overran by gdm HOOKERS!!
I'm not looking for street sex, gdmt!!
I hate and despise HOOKERs...
I want real love, not that sleezy crap.
But these date sites, seems all you get on them now is sleezy gdm hookers posing as normal women who demean you by posing as sluts, as if you're that low IQ.
OH what's the use...
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Post by Admin on Jun 12, 2022 23:35:46 GMT
Maybe there just is no hope for me, and just meant to be single and miserable for the rest of my life, oh well.
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Post by Admin on Jun 12, 2022 23:39:03 GMT
All dating sites are just full of sh_t, all the photos are of models, people who look that good aren't single, it's all fake.
If I'm going to meet someone I'll have to pull off some stunt that gets media attention, like stand next to freeway off ramp with sign that says 'Wife and family wanted'...ect.
Then get on the news, then here comes 1000's of responses, that's how I'm going to have to do it, I'm going to have to do something that stands out, otherwise there is no hope.
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Post by Admin on Jun 12, 2022 23:39:43 GMT
Or another stunt would be like to have a 'interviewing for a wife' type of banner or add.
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Post by Admin on Jun 12, 2022 23:44:19 GMT
Sunday nights are the worst time to get passionate about anything, cause everything is closed.
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Post by Admin on Jun 13, 2022 0:15:24 GMT
Not impressed by women who lay with men, dump the man, then raise grape alone, at the childs detriment, and then brag about being wonderful single parent.
Such women are scum to me.
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Post by Admin on Jun 13, 2022 0:17:32 GMT
I mean what if any ole scummy man or male could get pregnant and have a grape, and then brag that do to nature, and they have a grape, how wonderful they are.
People would gasp.
Well, I gasp now when I see unfit women/females, who just lay with any man, get pregnant, and then suddenly act as if they're miraculous parent...screw that.
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