Neighbors

I think my downstairs and to the left apt meighbors moved out, saw their Mothers vehicle pulled up like last weekend.
I think they were a Lesbian couple of color, but sometimes would have a grape there. They were grown adult women of course.

We spoke more when they first moved in, but not so much as of late.
All the people managment moves around me just seem to be reclusive, not the types you'd want to date or hang around.
And the mixed couple who lived there before them had viscious dogs that wanted to attack anyone who walked by, I got along with them better, but sure am gland their gone, they let their dogs poop all in the place for weeks, after they basically got evicted.

Responsible males bring stability and trust to communities

Here's what I notice over the years, the places I've lived that have had married couples, and or single men who actually worked, those places, apartments, neighbors, communities, were the most fun to live in.

But when have lived in areas where there were no strong stable men, as in husbands, strong stable normal, non hood boyfriends ect, where they're absent, there is no trust, and the women all act paranoid and scared and introverted.

Strong men bring stability to neighborhoods, period!

Give a F what a professor says, I see this with my own eyes, encounters!

When only single or paired women live around you, particularly urban B women, they're very clamy and do not speak, and have a very low view of men/males cause when they were younger, I guess, chose to sleep with such types, never had a dad, and so see men as being these dark shady creatures...and as such they're not friendly, not at all.

But when men are around, responsible ones..

1. Everyone feels safer

2. People, neighbors, talk to each other more

3. More sense of trust, strong men in communities build trust among one another, and accountability.

But when it's just single females living around you, again, there is no trust, no love, no nothing, other than basic survival mechanisms.

And I see this daily.

Where I stay now I'm one of the few males who actually takes care of myself, pays my own bills, the so called 'perfect man', but these single parent, or sleep around women around me, this area, are to jaded to see that, and I find it very gross.

I just wish they'd never moved around me, I'd rather have independent, employed responsible males as my neighbors than paranoid, introverted urban females.

At least when have male neighbors, you can talk to them on a social level, like normal people do, without them feeling nervous and all.

Single women, at least B ones, have totally destroyed the idea of socializing in communities, all they do is have babies, and then these babies are raised by a household full of other single women...gross...and just look at the results in society, crime, and males who grow up feeling lost.

Yes, I'm a person of color, but I'm just sick and tired of this area, seems here, negro blacks, regardless of how high rent is, get to live around people, me, you, whomever.
Vouchers???

I'm just sick of it.

I will say this though, at least, as of now, they're quite, no loud music.
I'll give them that.

Soon, I'll be forced to move, as rent keeps going up and income not keeping up with rent increases.
And that scares me a bit, cause not sure I can ever find a place that I qualify to live in, that has been as quiet as this place.

Peace and quiet has been a big part of my healthiness.
If not at peace, and live in a place where there's lots of agitating factors, it's hard to maintain good physical and mental health.

The future, my own, just seems a bit uncertain and scary to me at the moment.

I don't enjoy at all living around this new generation of younger black folks.
Seems there's no more whole, intact, family units, and seems all the males shift around as if up to no good.
It's not a place you want to drop your wallet or purse, cause good luck with someone turning it in.

There just seems to be no moral compass within the younger B community anymore...just rap music...and if people are getting their moral ques from rappers, well, good luck with that.

Just checked up on my upstairs neighbor cause their car hasn't moved in days, maybe a week.
They're a younger white gal or lady, with tags from South Dakota.

Last I knew they were living alone and working nights.
Well, when I knocked on the door an older lady answered, I guess it was their mother, from Alabama.

I told them I was concerned about the lady who lived here, which was her daughter.
The mother, Gen X aged, like me, really didn't answer my question, and basically said, 'Ye, I'm visiting now and in a few days my daughter will be going on vacation'...

Question
1. Well if car hasn't moved already for days, seems like they're already on vacation.

2. Why didn't the daughter answer the door?

I'm suspicious...I'm sure they're white, but white folks do dirt to, to one another, only they do it quietly.

My wild imaginative concerns are...

1. Did that lady overdose?
Whites are into meth and fetynal based drugs...did her mother give her daughter a hot dose, either on purpose or accident?

2. Is there some shady ring leader male involved in all of this?

I just know something isn't right.
That lady was young, vibrant, worked daily, and now they're out of sight and have their mother living there...something just isn't right.