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Post by Admin on Mar 10, 2022 4:11:00 GMT
Neighbors Neighbors
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Post by Admin on Mar 10, 2022 4:14:33 GMT
I think my downstairs and to the left apt meighbors moved out, saw their Mothers vehicle pulled up like last weekend. I think they were a Lesbian couple of color, but sometimes would have a grape there. They were grown adult women of course.
We spoke more when they first moved in, but not so much as of late. All the people managment moves around me just seem to be reclusive, not the types you'd want to date or hang around. And the mixed couple who lived there before them had viscious dogs that wanted to attack anyone who walked by, I got along with them better, but sure am gland their gone, they let their dogs poop all in the place for weeks, after they basically got evicted.
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Post by Admin on Mar 10, 2022 4:16:50 GMT
And then another Lesbian black couple use to live right next to me, and use to always fight, I mean terrible call the police type of fights, it got ugly every night and I even had to change the room I slept in. I mean walk breaking type of fights, every early morning at around 1-3 am, I'm really glad they finally left.
Everyone acts so nice when signing lease in the office, but then some really change once actually move in.
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Post by Admin on Jul 17, 2022 14:51:13 GMT
Responsible males bring stability and trust to communities
Here's what I notice over the years, the places I've lived that have had married couples, and or single men who actually worked, those places, apartments, neighbors, communities, were the most fun to live in.
But when have lived in areas where there were no strong stable men, as in husbands, strong stable normal, non hood boyfriends ect, where they're absent, there is no trust, and the women all act paranoid and scared and introverted.
Strong men bring stability to neighborhoods, period!
Give a F what a professor says, I see this with my own eyes, encounters!
When only single or paired women live around you, particularly urban B women, they're very clamy and do not speak, and have a very low view of men/males cause when they were younger, I guess, chose to sleep with such types, never had a dad, and so see men as being these dark shady creatures...and as such they're not friendly, not at all.
But when men are around, responsible ones..
1. Everyone feels safer
2. People, neighbors, talk to each other more
3. More sense of trust, strong men in communities build trust among one another, and accountability.
But when it's just single females living around you, again, there is no trust, no love, no nothing, other than basic survival mechanisms.
And I see this daily.
Where I stay now I'm one of the few males who actually takes care of myself, pays my own bills, the so called 'perfect man', but these single parent, or sleep around women around me, this area, are to jaded to see that, and I find it very gross.
I just wish they'd never moved around me, I'd rather have independent, employed responsible males as my neighbors than paranoid, introverted urban females.
At least when have male neighbors, you can talk to them on a social level, like normal people do, without them feeling nervous and all.
Single women, at least B ones, have totally destroyed the idea of socializing in communities, all they do is have babies, and then these babies are raised by a household full of other single women...gross...and just look at the results in society, crime, and males who grow up feeling lost.
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Post by Admin on Jun 25, 2023 22:15:42 GMT
Seems no matter how much rent goes up, the gdm managment still and always manages to make live around me, 1960's, southern, plantation negro types.
WTF man?
F this place.
I mean if I'm paying higher, high rent, I expect to at least have neighbors of moral, and educational caliber. Instead, no matter how much rent goes up, it's always trash, social trash, that the leasing office sends to live around me. I'm sick of it.
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Post by Admin on Jun 25, 2023 22:18:16 GMT
Yes, I'm a person of color, but I'm just sick and tired of this area, seems here, negro blacks, regardless of how high rent is, get to live around people, me, you, whomever. Vouchers???
I'm just sick of it.
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Post by Admin on Jun 25, 2023 22:20:14 GMT
And it's not color I resent, it's that whole urban mindset crap, that ghetto mindset crap, that I so get sick of. And how women always act so nice in leasing office, then whem move in here come the thug males, their boyfriends, sons, ect.,
Both upper class whites and blacks, and Hispanics are just sick of this crap. We're paying higher rent yet still forced to live around ghetto types!!
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Post by Admin on Jun 25, 2023 22:48:28 GMT
I will say this though, at least, as of now, they're quite, no loud music. I'll give them that.
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Post by Admin on Aug 15, 2023 12:31:03 GMT
My downstairs neighbors moved out last night, in the middle of the night, people around here seem to love doing that. They didn't even stay for full lease term. At first I was mad that they moved in, but once they did, they were so very quiet, and now hope the next people or person will be just as quiet and still. And the amazing thing is they, or the woman, or women, had young ones, maybe even a young teenage son, yet they were all still very quiet, and they were urban. But I never heard music, or anything. Well, I won't miss them, but I'll miss the quietness they brought. I won't miss them cause I never got to know them, maybe spoke to them twice on a chance meeting while either leaving or coming to place.
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Post by Admin on Aug 15, 2023 12:33:17 GMT
Soon, I'll be forced to move, as rent keeps going up and income not keeping up with rent increases. And that scares me a bit, cause not sure I can ever find a place that I qualify to live in, that has been as quiet as this place.
Peace and quiet has been a big part of my healthiness. If not at peace, and live in a place where there's lots of agitating factors, it's hard to maintain good physical and mental health.
The future, my own, just seems a bit uncertain and scary to me at the moment.
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Post by Admin on Dec 31, 2023 4:54:30 GMT
A bike ride through a middle-class black neighborhood
Not all black folks live smack dab up in da middle of da hood, as bike ride demonstrates.
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